P3: Explain the influences of two predictable and two unpredictable major life events on the development of an individual.

For my P3 I will be explaining two predictable and unpredictable life events on my individual Kehlani Parrish. Major life events can change our personal development either with predictable events and unpredictable events.

                                                      Predictable;

Predictable life events are things such as puberty and getting an education as all individuals go through puberty and many are destined for an education these type of life events are predictable as they are what we know to happen within our lives. The life events we go through will influence our lives and have a positive or negative effect on our development.

                                            

School/Education:

The first predictable event I will talk about is attending school; this is a big major life event as many individuals are expected to do so in order to prosper in their lives. As this is a predictable life event it can have a tremendous influence on an individual’s development physically, intellectually, emotionally and socially. When we start school we tend to do many activities such as PE, this means that we use and gain physical strength through the exercises and a boost in our physical development. As a child Kehlani enjoyed dancing which she wanted to pursue as a career but couldn’t due to a bad knee injury, this would have been a good way to develop physically as it strengthens the body. School also helps those less able to have nutritious meals at home by providing school dinners that will boost their system making them develop well and healthily. School has a major effect on us intellectually as we develop and understand new things, from our times tables to complex words we may never use again. Emotionally school can have a tremendous effect on a child, for instance young children who start nursery are usually attached to their parent/carer and it may be hard for them to separate in order to go to school, many children believe that their parents have left them and it is a major adjustment for children especially when they have moved from one school to the next. Finally starting school is where our social development is most developed as we meet new people and share and express ideas with other individuals. Socially Kehlani made friends through common interests such as music which gave her something to share with an audience and create a bond with, being that Kehlani was “different” she isolated herself before finding a passion similar to a few others who later became her band mates.

Relationships:

Having relationships is how individuals learn and gain new experiences. These are what people usually expect to happen within their lives in order to live comfortably and achieve other goals that are set out for us. Physically we find relationships to do exiting things such as having a sdexual relationship with a significant other, this could be seen as physical development as an individual is mentally ready to involve in certain things. Another way a relationship could be helpful for physical development is when people form relationships they tend to do activities such as going to parties going to theme parks and much more. A way for an individual to develop intellectually in a relationship is by learning from one anothers point of view and debating on particular subjects. Emotionally people go through senarios that may be difficult to overcome, individuals may also learn from emotional experiences such as bumps within relationships or unexpected breakups and re makeups. As an adolescent Kehlani revealed to many people that she is bisexual as she falls in love with a persons mind rather then how they look physically. These experiences are all part of life and can give people better outcomes. A relationship benefits mostly throughout social interaction thus I believe that social development is mostly achieved when having a relationship with people whether it be freindships or partnerships. People interact by being social, this way people learn things and develop new ways of living. Relationships are expected life events as a person doesn’t want to be lonely and may want a companion to share things with whether they like companions or not it is something that could be out of their control.

                                                        

                                      Unpredictable;

Unpredictable life events are things we don’t expect to happen within our lives, these things vary from divorce and death which you will expect but sometimes it comes unexpectedly. These life events that we go through can impact us in a negative way as they are unpredictable but some could bring a positive light to our future.

                     

                                                      Homelessness:

Being homeless is an issue that many people are surprised by, one day a person may be living comfortably and the next day their whole world has turned upside down. Physically a person who has become homeless lacks nutrition and food benefits as they may not have any means to care for themselves. Kehlani became homeless during her adolescence stage when she was struggling through a difficult time with family members, this could make an individual such as Kehlani weaker and prone to getting infections. Being homeless can effect someone’s intellectual development if the situation they are in makes them feel less able of other situations for example how to deal with their money which may have led them into the place they are in now. Intellectually I believe that Kehlani would not have been in the right state of mind intellectually as she was a teenager, she would have been unaware of how to care for herself thus she stole in order to feel comfortable. Emotionally a person who goes through a situation like this may be traumatised in what has happened to them, people usually turn to drinking or drugs and beg for ways to provide those habits. Emotionally Kehlani may have felt like she wasn’t wanted in the world and that she doesn’t know of her next step to a better career, it can also affect someone by making them think less of themselves. A person’s social development can deteriorate or even be gained when homeless. An individual may feel abandoned and that nobody cares for their well-being. Kehlani was homeless along with a friend who was struggling at the time also which meant she had some form of companionship. Being lonely and feeling neglected is never a way for a person to feel or live their life.

                                    Bereavement:

This can be very unexpected and cause people to evaluate things. A person may have lost a parent or sibling, close friend or lifetime partner, this can affect someone terribly if it is a sudden incident and even if it is something you expected to happen with an individual for example someone who had a terminal illness. Many individuals who have suddenly lost someone may deteriorate physically as a sudden shock causes them to take less care of themselves. A person’s intellectual development can become weaker when they lose someone they love. Kehlani may have been in the wrong mind-set when she needed a father figure to guide her through certain things in her life thus also impacting her emotionally.  Emotional development would be one of the most effected development stages in a person who loses someone they love or know, for me I lost a friend from a previous school whilst I was out of the country, it was so unexpected that I was really emotional as I was unable to comfort my cousin who had known him for years. When a person is taken away so unexpectedly it causes someone to revaluate things and even slack in certain areas. Kehlani lost her father before she was born which may not have affected her emotionally as it would of someone who had life experiences with that person, however Kehlani may have gone in a different direction if her father was alive to influence her behaviour either for better or for worse. Socially a person could feel lonely and less able to discuss issues with other people if the individual who was taken from their life was a close friend or someone they confide in. Socially Kehlani may have been affected if she wanted to know certain things that only her father could tell her but she is not, which can and probably has impacted her life negatively.

If life suddenly changes, there is always the risk that we will fall out of control and become stressed. Changes in life often involve positive learning experiences and even a risk of stress. Some major changes in life can be predicted and even chosen, whilst others may be unpredicted which could be unexpected.

Unit 4 M1/D1

M1: Discuss the nature-nurture debate in relation to the development of an individual.

In my written report, I will be discussing the nature vs. nurture debate around my individual Kehlani Parrish, based on two life stages.

Nature is what is influenced by genetic heritage and other biological factors. Nurture is generally taken as the influence of external factors after birth e.g. the product of exposure, experience and learning on an individual within the environment.

It has been an ongoing debate between psychologists that we are born the way we are, thus creating the ‘nature-nurture debate’. Each of these sides have good points that it's really hard to decide whether a person's development is predisposed in her DNA, or a majority of it is influenced by this life experiences and her environment. As of now, we know that both nature and nurture play important roles in human development, but we have not known yet whether we are developed majorly because of nature or due to nurture.

 The nature-nurture debate is concerned with the relative contribution that both influences make to human behaviour. Those who adopt an extreme hereditary position are known as nativists.  Their basic assumption is that the characteristics of the human species as a whole are a product of evolution and that individual differences are due to each person’s unique genetic code. In general, the earlier a particular ability appears, the more likely it is to be under the influence of genetic factors.

http://www.simplypsychology.org/naturevsnurture.html

McLeod, P, (2007) Nature vs Nurture in Psychology, http://www.simplypsychology.org/naturevsnurture.html (accessed:December 2nd 2015)

Childhood: 3-11

Surrounding the nature side of the debate it is believed that our physical characteristics are biologically determined by genetic inheritance. Many people would say we inherit colour of our eyes from our parents, this is more so the Nature aspect as it is genetic inheritance and biological factors. Kehlani may have been believed to be a singer from before birth due to her father previously playing in a band. The influences around Kehlani would mostly factor how she developed a sense for music; due to the nurture debate her aunty would play many soulful records which gave Kehlani the passion to sing soulful tunes.

Intellectual: As a child, Kehlani knew how to communicate like most children. Though she was premature it would have been thought of her to be delayed within certain milestones but she wasn’t. At their early stages of life, children are unable to count or understand ideas properly.

Emotional:  Children have wide and vivid imaginations and start to understand the roles that people have. For example, a baby around 6 months discovers who is caring for them such as their mother, they then will notice when their parent/guardian isn’t around and start to feel worried. During her childhood she was shuffled from household to household, this can have a negative effect on a child and make them feel unsettled in her environment.

Photo from: https://thinkbeforeyouink.com/tag/kehlanimusic/

Social: Early childhood most social activity comes from parents and family, due to Kehlani’s mother ending up in jail since Kehlani was a young age. At this life stage, children are emotionally attached and dependant on an adult that cares for them.

The events within Kehlani’s childhood such as her mother getting sent to jail are nurture

                                             Early Adulthood: 20-40

Intellectual: Adults are wiser to their surroundings as they may have been through certain life situations which could impact them for the better or impact them for the worse thus being nurture that influences adults.

Emotional: During adulthood is when emotional attachment comes into character, this may include being sensitive to certain things or even being defensive. It is still a learning experience no matter what age you are. Emotionally adults are supposed to be 
matured as they have learnt from past experiences, due to Kehlani recently entering into adulthood she may feel that she still has time to mature and experience situations. 

Social: The way in which Kehlani has developed socially is due to her upbringing and the fact that she was passed around from house to house tells us that her behaviour has been affected by it. As you grow you begin to make new friends and connections, for example Kehlani being a music artist will meet many new people some who have influenced her throughout her life. As an adult you learn to cope with certain relationships. As adults you become involved in sexual relationships and figure out your self-worth. Kehlani is a women brought up around the environment she lives in, this means she has experienced relationships; such as sexual will influence Kehlani’s behaviour throughout her life. Networking is important and a big role in Kehlani’s life which could potentially affect her thus coming from the nurture aspect.

An individual is considered an adult when they have matured rather mentally then physically it can also be said that adults are defined by their social roles.

Jayaram, V. (2014) Maturity of Mind and Adult Behaviour,

http://www.hinduwebsite.com/selfdevt/maturity.asp (accessed: 2nd december 2015)

D1: Evaluate how the nature and nurture debate in may affect the physical, intellectual, emotional and social development of two life stages of the development of your chosen family member or celebrity.

                                                       Childhood&Adulthood:

Photo From: http://prayersandapples.com/nature-vs-nutrition-phenylketonuria-pku/

Growing up Kehlani had a mix of nature (biological) and nurture (environment) both of the life

stages I have chosen give a lot of information around Kehlani’s life. Kehlani grew to steal in order to survive as she became homeless; these factors show that nurture had more of an impact on Kehlani as she had to adapt to the environment that she was in. people are around her also influence her behaviour in negative ways thus she began doing things that were wrong. Later on in her life such as early adulthood she learnt from her behaviour and changed for the better.

The physical development of Kehlani is due to nature as the biological factors from her parents gave her the beauty she has; also Kehlani believes to have her father’s eyes which are known to be hereditary features. Her physical appearance is what distinguished her from others and captured the attention of nick Cannon. Most people believe Kehlani to be a rapper due to her appearance as she has many tattoos all over her body; these features are due to nurture as the environment she lives in dictated her look.

As genetics and biological factors can determine our looks and more we can also inherit certain diseases and disorders such as:

• ·         Down Syndrome
• ·         Cystic fibrosis
• ·         Angelman Syndrome
• ·         Turner Syndrome
• ·         Tay-saches disease 
• ·         Polycystic kidney disease 
• ·         Sickle Cell disease

Wikipedia The Free Encyclopedia, (2015), Listof genetic disorders, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_genetic_disorders (accessed: 2nd December 2015)

Intellectual development is how we think and understand things. Kehlani’s intellectual development is due to nurture as she learns from life lessons and things she has experienced. The intellectual development is the process of how we think and use our minds for certain situations. Kehlani’s intellectual development is due to nurture as she learns from life lessons and things she has experienced. The intellectual development is the process of how we think and use our minds to retain information and also for certain situations.

Personal emotional relationships are due to nurture as it is in our environment however it could be stated that a woman chooses her significant other due to features her father has/had, this could be due to nature. Positive relationships with significant others during adulthood cam contribute to an individual having a better state of mind and well-being. Emotionally Kehlani experienced a lot such as; her mother being released from jail and revealing her sexuality as being bisexual to the world. All these events that have taken place in Kehlani’s life so far have been for a reason as they can make her a better individual.

During childhood confidence usually comes from emotional experience, considering that Kehlani had a difficult childhood she may channel all her emotions and feelings into her music.

For my individual I believe her social development was influenced by nurture as she has learnt to make friends and adapt to friendships due to the environment. Within her adulthood Kehlani hasn’t got many people she calls friends more so she has people who are good associates. Social development is how we meet people and interact with them, having similar interests as a person is more likely what will make a friendship last. During childhood children make friends at school when they interact with other students, this behaviour is due to nurture as it is in the environment they are brought up in. socially it could be known that we have some biological factors which makes it also nature, for example many characteristics are inherited from our parent’s people often say “you sound like your mother” or “you two both speak alike”. The simplest of things can be due to mannerisms and what you have experienced in the household you grew up in.

All these behaviours and ways can influence a person for better or for worse. Every factor in a person’s life determinates their future.